Does one of you always tend to spend way more (unnecessary) money than the other? This can lead to irritations, which can then lead to unnecessary and painful fights. To help you out, I’ve listed a few tips!
- Dreams and goals
It makes sense to find out what dreams and goals you have. These dreams ultimately determine what you prefer to spend your money on. Do you both love to travel? Then it’s important to set aside enough money for this. Make clear agreements about this. It’s also motivating and fun to work towards a common goal.
2. Differences
If one spends much more easily than the other, this difference can sometimes lead to arguments. It’s therefore good to accept that you can’t and don’t need to change your personal preferences. If you’re the one who spends money more easily, then it’s important to give the other person the time they need to make a financial decision.
3. Planning
Financially, there’s more peace of mind if you plan together. For example, think about your career choices. Are you satisfied with your current job or maybe one of you wants to get even more out of it? What do you ultimately want to earn? Or, are you perhaps already very satisfied with your current salary? What amount do you want to save per month and what do you do in a financial emergency? (unexpected high bill, the washing machine that breaks down, etc). Do you save on a joint account or do you prefer to have your own savings account? Make everything negotiable so that you both know where you stand.
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I don’t have a partner to argue with. Only my mother haha
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Haha same, and my father
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We don’t, but I’m constantly feeling like we need more.
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Oh yeah, sometimes it truly feels as is you don’t have enough, especially now with the money crisis
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My partner and I never fight about this, luckily ^^
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I’m glad to hear that!
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Daar heb ik nooit ruzie over gehad al die tijd niet dat wij al samen zijn.
Het is ook dat men hier samen over moet kunnen praten en wil men iets ondernemen doe het in samenspraak met je partner.
Aum Shanti
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Exactly! You get it!
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🙏
Aum Shanti
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😊
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As long as you talk, nothing should happen in terms of fights
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Exactly! You get it!
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Thanks for sharing!
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You’re welcome!
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I used to always mention big spendings. Small/innocent ones, not so much
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The big ones are most important!
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I hate that money can be a potential break-up point…
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Yeah, me too…
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